Tis the Season

The gift giving season is now upon us and many people already picked up gifts for those they love. This is also the time of year where many people will quote things like "It's more blessed to give than receive" or "It's the thought that counts." As I think about some past gifts that have been given to me, I have realized that I know some thoughtless people. I tend to pay attention to detail and I remember the little things people tell me about them. If they don't tell me anything and I'm around them, I pay attention to the Dunkin Donuts they drink every morning so I'm not going to buy a Starbucks gift card for them.

I have noticed that a lot of people seem to think an individual is ungrateful if the gift they receive does not match who they are or their personal taste. Think back to when you were a child and you received a gift that wasn't what you expected or you liked. You weren't happy they got you a gift. You were disappointed they didn't get you something you liked. Here are a few tips to help you during this holiday season and all throughout the year. 1. Pay attention to the person when they speak. Oftentimes they will provide you with details regarding their personal likes and dislikes. This will help you personalize a gift for them. 2. Which bring me to my second point, if you are personalizing a gift for someone, make sure you get the correct spelling of the person's name. 3. Gifts are reminders to the recipient of just how special they are to the giver. Make sure your gift is memorable. And that means in a good way. 4. Be financially savvy when purchasing gifts. You don't have to spend a fortune on a nice gift but don't be a miser either. Finding something that is moderately price is always good. 5. Do not keep score. If you are giving gifts only to see what you will receive in return, don't give gifts. Gifts should come from the heart.